add Docker deployment with Alpine image, release config and health check

- Alpine multi-stage Dockerfile (131 MB image)
- Release overlays (bin/server, bin/migrate), env.sh, Release module
- Health check endpoint at GET /health
- Fly.io config with SQLite volume mount
- Fix hardcoded paths in optimizer.ex and variant_cache.ex to use
  Application.app_dir/2 (breaks in releases where Plug.Static serves
  from a different directory than CWD)
- strip_beams: true in release config
- Optimised .dockerignore and .gitignore for mockup variants

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

rel/overlays/bin/server

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+#!/bin/sh
+set -eu
+
+PHX_SERVER=true exec bin/simpleshop_theme start